{"product_id":"closer-mismatched-libido-workbook-for-couples","title":"Closer – Mismatched Libido Workbook for Couples","description":"\u003cp data-start=\"78\" data-end=\"297\"\u003eA practical digital workbook created for couples who love each other, but feel stuck because one partner wants intimacy more often than the other — and both want to find their way back without blame, pressure, or shame.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-start=\"299\" data-end=\"585\"\u003e\u003cstrong data-start=\"299\" data-end=\"309\"\u003eCloser\u003c\/strong\u003e is a self-guided 90-day workbook for partners navigating mismatched desire. It helps couples understand the gap, talk about it safely, rebuild physical closeness without pressure, and create a realistic rhythm that works for both people.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003chr data-start=\"587\" data-end=\"590\"\u003e\n\u003ch3 data-section-id=\"frwsa\" data-start=\"592\" data-end=\"609\"\u003eWhat’s Inside\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp data-start=\"611\" data-end=\"646\"\u003eThis digital PDF workbook includes:\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cul data-start=\"648\" data-end=\"1342\"\u003e\n\u003cli data-section-id=\"ay3gqj\" data-start=\"648\" data-end=\"705\"\u003eA blame-free guide to understanding mismatched desire\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli data-section-id=\"s5wrm2\" data-start=\"706\" data-end=\"751\"\u003eScripts for the first honest conversation\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli data-section-id=\"jh1kwx\" data-start=\"752\" data-end=\"817\"\u003eExercises for both the higher-desire and lower-desire partner\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli data-section-id=\"xjakd6\" data-start=\"818\" data-end=\"873\"\u003e“Accelerators and brakes” desire-mapping worksheets\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli data-section-id=\"cewr54\" data-start=\"874\" data-end=\"925\"\u003eWarm ways to respond to rejection or hesitation\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli data-section-id=\"1pd0fs1\" data-start=\"926\" data-end=\"962\"\u003eTouch-without-pressure exercises\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli data-section-id=\"1ivvmqu\" data-start=\"963\" data-end=\"1005\"\u003eGentle sensate-focus style experiments\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli data-section-id=\"oy1kwr\" data-start=\"1006\" data-end=\"1039\"\u003eCloseness menu planning pages\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli data-section-id=\"10i0pn2\" data-start=\"1040\" data-end=\"1068\"\u003eWeekly rhythm worksheets\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli data-section-id=\"16k1zps\" data-start=\"1069\" data-end=\"1104\"\u003eA full 90-day reconnection plan\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli data-section-id=\"1x0jgir\" data-start=\"1105\" data-end=\"1152\"\u003eMonth one, two, and three progress trackers\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli data-section-id=\"17493lt\" data-start=\"1153\" data-end=\"1210\"\u003eRepair exercises for off weeks and hard conversations\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli data-section-id=\"isizyi\" data-start=\"1211\" data-end=\"1239\"\u003eMonthly review questions\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli data-section-id=\"p8xjtf\" data-start=\"1240\" data-end=\"1296\"\u003eGuidance on when professional support may be helpful\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli data-section-id=\"704fn7\" data-start=\"1297\" data-end=\"1342\"\u003eA final shared intention page for couples\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003chr data-start=\"1344\" data-end=\"1347\"\u003e\n\u003ch3 data-section-id=\"1orspav\" data-start=\"1349\" data-end=\"1371\"\u003eWhy You’ll Love It\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp data-start=\"1373\" data-end=\"1461\"\u003eThis is not a lecture about desire mismatch. It is a practical plan for what to do next.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-start=\"1463\" data-end=\"1730\"\u003e\u003cstrong data-start=\"1463\" data-end=\"1473\"\u003eCloser\u003c\/strong\u003e helps couples stop treating the mismatch as one partner’s fault and start approaching it as a shared challenge. The workbook gives both partners language, structure, and small steps that make intimacy feel safer, more honest, and less loaded with pressure.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-start=\"1732\" data-end=\"1896\"\u003eIt is especially helpful for couples who are tired of repeating the same conversation, avoiding the topic completely, or feeling rejected, guilty, or misunderstood.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003chr data-start=\"1898\" data-end=\"1901\"\u003e\n\u003ch3 data-section-id=\"9n3n4e\" data-start=\"1903\" data-end=\"1918\"\u003ePerfect For\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cul data-start=\"1920\" data-end=\"2340\"\u003e\n\u003cli data-section-id=\"1h1aqd8\" data-start=\"1920\" data-end=\"1963\"\u003eCouples with different levels of desire\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli data-section-id=\"1rsmpzc\" data-start=\"1964\" data-end=\"2024\"\u003eLong-term partners who feel disconnected around intimacy\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli data-section-id=\"1codqkc\" data-start=\"2025\" data-end=\"2070\"\u003eCouples who want a structured 90-day plan\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli data-section-id=\"g7x6qt\" data-start=\"2071\" data-end=\"2127\"\u003ePartners who want to talk without blaming each other\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli data-section-id=\"idgm69\" data-start=\"2128\" data-end=\"2172\"\u003eHigher-desire partners who feel unwanted\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli data-section-id=\"1eauw2z\" data-start=\"2173\" data-end=\"2227\"\u003eLower-desire partners who feel pressured or guilty\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli data-section-id=\"3we4zx\" data-start=\"2228\" data-end=\"2276\"\u003eCouples who want to rebuild closeness gently\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli data-section-id=\"1xgu5qm\" data-start=\"2277\" data-end=\"2340\"\u003eAnyone looking for practical relationship exercises at home\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003chr data-start=\"2342\" data-end=\"2345\"\u003e\n\u003ch3 data-section-id=\"9kmvp5\" data-start=\"2347\" data-end=\"2363\"\u003eHow It Works\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp data-start=\"2365\" data-end=\"2428\"\u003eWork through the workbook together, in order, at a gentle pace.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-start=\"2430\" data-end=\"2680\"\u003eThe first sections help you understand the desire gap and have the conversation safely. Then, the workbook moves into low-pressure touch exercises, intentional closeness planning, and a 90-day rhythm designed to help you reconnect one step at a time.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-start=\"2682\" data-end=\"2840\"\u003eEach exercise is built around the idea that neither partner is the problem. The mismatch is the problem — and it can be approached together, on the same side.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003chr data-start=\"2842\" data-end=\"2845\"\u003e\n\u003ch3 data-section-id=\"1o2c85r\" data-start=\"2847\" data-end=\"2866\"\u003eProduct Details\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cul data-start=\"2868\" data-end=\"3143\"\u003e\n\u003cli data-section-id=\"ignvkp\" data-start=\"2868\" data-end=\"2891\"\u003eFormat: Digital PDF\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli data-section-id=\"1lqsbzh\" data-start=\"2892\" data-end=\"2912\"\u003eLength: 30 pages\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli data-section-id=\"1lp14du\" data-start=\"2913\" data-end=\"2934\"\u003eLanguage: English\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli data-section-id=\"fll0e3\" data-start=\"2935\" data-end=\"2973\"\u003eDelivery: Instant digital download\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli data-section-id=\"fn92r1\" data-start=\"2974\" data-end=\"3003\"\u003eUse: Printable or digital\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli data-section-id=\"1kahc72\" data-start=\"3004\" data-end=\"3051\"\u003eProduct Type: Couples relationship workbook\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli data-section-id=\"19vf2nv\" data-start=\"3052\" data-end=\"3076\"\u003ePlan Length: 90 days\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli data-section-id=\"yagiyf\" data-start=\"3077\" data-end=\"3143\"\u003eBest used with: Privacy, patience, honesty, and mutual respect\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003chr data-start=\"3145\" data-end=\"3148\"\u003e\n\u003cp data-start=\"3150\" data-end=\"3591\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\"\u003e\u003cstrong data-start=\"3150\" data-end=\"3169\"\u003eImportant Note:\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr data-start=\"3169\" data-end=\"3172\"\u003eThis is a digital product. 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